Sunday, August 30, 2009

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Just between you and me I was not sure what I wanted to write about this time.


Of course there is still lots of stuff going on but not a lot that makes me want to write about it. For example I have family members who just up and moved out of state and others thinking about going too, that business is a bit off (but everyone knows this) and also lots of friends are having tough issues that they are dealing with who want and need to talk. I can relate...


Most would say I'm a pretty laid-back guy and I would agree. I have tried getting mad before but nothing good seems to come out of it. Sure you can raise your blood pressure, throw stuff, and even get your adrenaline going by getting angry but all this usually doesn't help with fixing the issue. I usually do one of two things when I get angry, upset, or discouraged.


One being I take a deep breathe, sit down and start to figure a plan to fix the problem. I ask myself "how did this happen?" and move on to the solution and hopefully learn from my mistakes.


Two is not the better solution but one I have used many times. I will walk away so I can cool off and deal with it later. I hate conflict and would rather not be around it. Some say dealing with it straight up is better, I don't really know. You can help me here.


Staying motivated in the world today can be a hard thing. We all need to look for assistance wherever we can find it. You have to have faith and a connection with someone who will not only listen but be there for you when and if you need them. I have used my connection between conferences to talk and get to know some of the Ad3 people. They have helped me during rough times by being a ear for me to vent to when I was feeling down. And I have tried my best to give advice on issues affecting them.


Call, text or email me if you want to know more about me or just want to talk.

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